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Actor Rajeev Khandelwal
(the former
Sujal in
Kahiin To Hoga), who has
lived on his own for the last 10
years, articulates the importance of
doing things on your own. "There is
nothing around the house I can not
do -- be it cleaning, dusting,
washing, ironing. I love cooking.
Learn to do things yourself," he
says.
~ Saving for a rainy day is very
important. "If you have a regular
source of income, it makes sense to
save some for a rainy day, to tide
you through rough weather. Money
plays a very important role in life
at the end of the day," says Rajeev.
~ Get your priorities right. "Never
abuse your freedom. One can indulge
in small pleasures as long as one
has his priorities right. In my
field of work, there are certain
schedules I need to follow
religiously. If I need to go to the
gym tomorrow morning, I cannot drink
myself silly tonight. One needs to
know their limits," he says.
~ Actress Diya Mirza stresses the
importance of safely. "Live in a
safe locality with very good
security systems and nice neighbours,"
she says.
~ VJ Yudi adds, "Don't leave your
family for the heck of it. Your
parents' home is a good place to be.
Live alone for the right reasons, if
it helps you grow as a person, for
your career, for better prospects,
not because you want to get away
from family."
~ Planning is essential. There is
the milkman, the newspaperman you
will have to attend to, bills to be
paid etc.
~ Never cut ties with your family or
say bye to your past. Strengthen
every relation and offer support in
return.
~ Be strong. Don't run away from
problems. Face them head on.
Planning to live alone? For all you
know, you might surprise yourself
and come face to face with a whole
new transformed you. You'll discover
facets to your personality you never
knew existed. It's a great exercise
in character building. Don't forget,
though, it is also a lot of hard
work.
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